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5 Things that Happen when you Move Cross-Country

October 14, 2016

ICYMI we moved to Denver! And so far, we’re still in that “everything is new and exciting” phase, so I can’t give you an unbiased opinion just yet. I can tell you that the drive from Florida to Colorado absolutely sucks. Like, I will sell my soul before I ever make it again. I think I’m going to have pancake butt for the rest of my life after sitting in a car that long. Keep in mind, I have made the drive from SWFL to Chicago many many times. It’s nowhere near as bad as the drive over to Denver. I now have a list of my least favorite American states to drive through. Kansas is numero uno. #SorryDorothy

5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MOVE CROSS-COUNTRY

Tomorrow will mark one week since leaving our old home and some things about the relocation are already starting to feel weird. I had basically lived in the same town since 8th grade, had many friends, and a lot of family within close distance. I lived 20 minutes from the ocean (that I will miss dearly,) and now I am landlocked. I have only experienced cold weather in “cold snaps” of about a week or so at a time. It’s October and Denver has already reached Florida’s LOWEST winter temps. I am TERRIFIED to drop Jace off at his new school tomorrow and so many other things. Moving across the country is exciting… but damn is it stressful.

Here are some things that happen when you move your family across the country:

5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MOVE CROSS-COUNTRY

1. Your body requires some time to adjust.

Florida is humid. Like REALLY humid. All. The. Time. Denver is dry. Like REALLY dry. Seriously. My nose is bleeding. And I once purchased some Burt’s Bees “hand salve” which is like an insanely thick lotion for dry cracked hands. I now lather my entire body in it before bed. Still not overdoing it. Also, time change. For the first time in my life, I couldn’t stay up past midnight for a million dollars because my body still thinks it’s on the east coast.

2. People drive crazy, or do you drive crazy?

Either way, I feel that I am not on the same page as everyone else. Although, the consistent use of turning signals in a land not dominated by the 70+ age group is extremely refreshing. Turns out, even I need to use my signal more. ha! But, the age demographic here makes for a much faster paced driving experience than I am used to. Many florida drivers tend to think that the speed limit is 35mph no matter where they are.

5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MOVE CROSS-COUNTRY
This is us celebrating fire-ant free grass. 😉

3. Your kids will be confused.

Mine wake up everyday asking if it’s “still falling out.” Which translates to “is it still fall? Because we’re ready to see snow.” I don’t correct their phrasing, I enjoy it way too much. lol. Don’t judge them, seasons are an entirely new concept to them. Also, if we go anywhere that is more than a 20 minute drive, Zoey asks if we’re back in florida when we get there.

5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MOVE CROSS-COUNTRY

4.  YOU will be confused.

I can find approximately zero places without my gps. I can get home from approximately zero places without my gps. Also, I can’t find the box with my shoes in it.  So I just wear my flip flops and look as confused as I feel.
Also, people here say “pop” instead of “soda.” As a native to the Greater Chicagoland Area, I said pop my whole life as well…until, well until I didn’t anymore. Now I feel conflicted. BUT my kids are probably going to call it pop like I did. haha.
5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MOVE CROSS-COUNTRY

5. You’ll miss things that you took for granted.

No surprise here. I knew I would find things to miss about florida. For example, I know I’m biased about Publix because I worked there for nearly a decade, but I miss it as a customer. I have realized that I have unreasonably high standards when it comes to grocery stores thanks to the southern staple. (Don’t you think for a second that I’m pushing that wobbly cart around, Walmart!) I miss my family being nearby, both because I actually like them… and because I don’t trust anyone to babysit my kids. 😉 I miss the house that felt like “mine.” I don’t like renting, it feels so temporary and annoying. Plus, I have a wall shelf obsession and I’m afraid to put a million holes into someone else’s walls. I miss my friends and the small “village” that existed to support me and my babes. You know who you are.

Things are going to be different living waaaaaaaayyyy over here. I’m surely going to miss things about “home,” but I’m still very excited for this new adventure.

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Comments

  1. Jessica Hughes says

    October 14, 2016 at 11:12 am

    I’ve never moved cross country but I would be confused too! Alot of change!

  2. Jessica Hughes says

    October 14, 2016 at 11:12 am

    I’ve never moved cross country but I would be confused too! Alot of change!

  3. Jessica McAlexander says

    October 14, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    I know the feeling! In the 4 years since I’ve been married, my husband and I have moved 3 times! It definitely takes some time adjusting to, but new adventures are always fun!

    xo, Jessy | http://www.currentbliss.com

  4. Jessica McAlexander says

    October 14, 2016 at 12:09 pm

    I know the feeling! In the 4 years since I’ve been married, my husband and I have moved 3 times! It definitely takes some time adjusting to, but new adventures are always fun!

    xo, Jessy | http://www.currentbliss.com

  5. Katie Arnold says

    October 14, 2016 at 12:22 pm

    It is definitely strange when you move to suddenly not know where ANYTHING is; I have moved a lot and that catches me off guard every single time.

  6. Katie Arnold says

    October 14, 2016 at 12:22 pm

    It is definitely strange when you move to suddenly not know where ANYTHING is; I have moved a lot and that catches me off guard every single time.

  7. Angela Tolsma says

    October 14, 2016 at 4:17 pm

    oh gosh I can totally relate to most of this. I most from Canada to the States, last year. It’s been one year and I still struggle to find things without GPS. Grocery shopping is still a struggle, like hot chocolate is something I get shipped to me from Canada because it tastes funky in Wisconsin. But I couldn’t imagine moving across country with kids! That would be so tough! Lots of hugs and the best of luck!

  8. Angela Tolsma says

    October 14, 2016 at 4:17 pm

    oh gosh I can totally relate to most of this. I most from Canada to the States, last year. It’s been one year and I still struggle to find things without GPS. Grocery shopping is still a struggle, like hot chocolate is something I get shipped to me from Canada because it tastes funky in Wisconsin. But I couldn’t imagine moving across country with kids! That would be so tough! Lots of hugs and the best of luck!

  9. Fashionable Tigress says

    October 15, 2016 at 2:32 am

    I’m sure moving across the country is super scary and kind of a culture shock. I don’t know if I could do it ?

  10. Fashionable Tigress says

    October 15, 2016 at 2:32 am

    I’m sure moving across the country is super scary and kind of a culture shock. I don’t know if I could do it ?

  11. Dominique Garcia says

    October 15, 2016 at 11:27 am

    Wow what an adjustment! I’ve never moved but can imagine the changes would totally confuse me. Besides that the changes in your body because of pregnanacy! You’re a trooper little lady!

  12. Dominique Garcia says

    October 15, 2016 at 11:27 am

    Wow what an adjustment! I’ve never moved but can imagine the changes would totally confuse me. Besides that the changes in your body because of pregnanacy! You’re a trooper little lady!

  13. Taylor Smith says

    October 15, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    Growing up, my family moved 17 times before I turned 18. I love moving. My husband and I are about to make our first cross country move together. Good luck girl. 🙂

  14. Taylor Smith says

    October 15, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    Growing up, my family moved 17 times before I turned 18. I love moving. My husband and I are about to make our first cross country move together. Good luck girl. 🙂

  15. Laura says

    October 16, 2016 at 10:30 pm

    I’ve never moved cross country so this all sounds very intimidating to me! I hope you guys settle i quickly and love it there! Good luck with school!

  16. Laura says

    October 16, 2016 at 10:30 pm

    I’ve never moved cross country so this all sounds very intimidating to me! I hope you guys settle i quickly and love it there! Good luck with school!

  17. Cassie says

    October 17, 2016 at 10:34 am

    I didn’t move cross country, but I did move about 5 hours away from home when I first moved, and it’s such a big change! From small town, to big city – but I love it!
    You’ll adjust soon!
    PS. Love your lil belly! Congrats!

  18. Cassie says

    October 17, 2016 at 10:34 am

    I didn’t move cross country, but I did move about 5 hours away from home when I first moved, and it’s such a big change! From small town, to big city – but I love it!
    You’ll adjust soon!
    PS. Love your lil belly! Congrats!

  19. Shani Ogden says

    October 17, 2016 at 4:13 pm

    My husband and I moved from Utah to New York the summer after we got married (he was doing summer sales). It was a LONG drive, so I totally know what you mean. Nebraska is my least favorite state to drive through. 😉 But Colorado is a beautiful place! It will take some getting used to considering you’re from Florida, but I think you’ll like it. Good luck getting settled! 🙂

  20. Shani Ogden says

    October 17, 2016 at 4:13 pm

    My husband and I moved from Utah to New York the summer after we got married (he was doing summer sales). It was a LONG drive, so I totally know what you mean. Nebraska is my least favorite state to drive through. 😉 But Colorado is a beautiful place! It will take some getting used to considering you’re from Florida, but I think you’ll like it. Good luck getting settled! 🙂

  21. Heather Gullett Denniston says

    October 17, 2016 at 10:59 pm

    Moving is hard. Even in the same town. There are so many more points (obviously) other than the great ones that you mentioned but the one I think is biggest is the starting over on your network of resources and friend. Ugh.

  22. Heather Gullett Denniston says

    October 17, 2016 at 10:59 pm

    Moving is hard. Even in the same town. There are so many more points (obviously) other than the great ones that you mentioned but the one I think is biggest is the starting over on your network of resources and friend. Ugh.

  23. Tayler says

    October 18, 2016 at 11:29 am

    The driving, yes! We just moved from Utah to Texas and the Texan drivers and interstates scare me! Holy cow!

  24. Tayler says

    October 18, 2016 at 11:29 am

    The driving, yes! We just moved from Utah to Texas and the Texan drivers and interstates scare me! Holy cow!

  25. Rachel Golden says

    October 18, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    I couldn’t imagine moving across the country to a new place. The farthest I’ve moved is a two hour drive from home. Although, I feel you on the long road trip. I spent 20+ hours driving to Hilton Head this May, and it was torturous!

  26. Rachel Golden says

    October 18, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    I couldn’t imagine moving across the country to a new place. The farthest I’ve moved is a two hour drive from home. Although, I feel you on the long road trip. I spent 20+ hours driving to Hilton Head this May, and it was torturous!

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